Monday, May 22, 2023

MY FIRST MISSED EMAIL ☠️ - 22 May 2023

I’m so sorry yall! Last week things just were cray cray and I completely forgot to send out an email! I hope this email makes up for it as I will have a lot more to write about in this email. But just so I don't lose focus cause ADHD be working hard, ima get right into the last couple weeks!

So nothing too crazy happened a couple weeks ago, we did have zone conference which was awesome though, it was kinda sad though cause my buddy Elder Stacey gave his departing testimony and now I'm trunky. What stinks is that I became great friends with so many people who are all old in the mission so now they are all going home and it's sad lol but I'm hanging in there! Got a lot to look forward to this next few weeks. But other than zone conference, we met a Golden Referral!!!!! We were out teaching people when we get an online referral and we decided to visit him, as we got there he asked if we had the Bible and the Book of mormon so right off the bat he already knew about the Book Of Mormon, so we start learning about this guy and he straight up tells us he wants to be baptized and that he wants a quad (which is every standard works put into one book)!!! So we taught him as much as we could and this last week we were able to put him on date to be baptized the 3rd of June! So keep yalls prayers up for our boy Charles!!!

This last week was also awesome too!! We had a lot of lessons planned throughout the week which always makes things fun! We got to teach Charles and we have been having lots of success with talking with everyone and getting Charles to church! Overall it's been a great week, another thing that happened this week was we actually put our friend hunter on date to be baptized as well!!! He's been struggling with the word of wisdom but he wants to get better and knows the Book of mormon to be true as well as Joseph Smith to be a true prophet! He wants to be baptized and so we let him know that it will take some time to help him with his addiction and so we said we would try our best to help him be baptized on July 22nd! Which is a day before my birthday and I mean if this baptism happens, this would be the best birthday gift I could ever ask for!! So prayers up for hunter!! 

Last Friday was probably my favorite day of the week though, I had an exchange with my district and I got to go with the ELDER Thatcher who is just an absolute unit of a missionary! We had a great time and just got along so well! It was awesome, I learned a ton and I also learned how bad I am at the guitar compared to this fine gentleman! He's crazy at the guitar but hey maybe when I get back from da mish I'll be able to play as good as he can! But it was overall just a successful work day and we had so much fun while doing the lords work! 

Something else crazy happened this week, we were getting ready to go to district council and I smelled something like burning, I thought my comp was cooking something but he wasn't and so we are looking around and we noticed our water heater was literally oozing out smoke! And so we start freaking out trying to figure out who to call but then the thing started like sparking and then we actually started freaking out because literally something was about to explode. So we quickly turned off every switch on the breaker box and it finally calmed down but I mean the smell of that smoke was rancid, it literally felt like I was gonna get cancer. So we called the mission office and they said they would send someone immediately to look at it. So we left and didn't come back till the evening. When we did, we check and everything was turned back on but the panel on the side of the water heater was a little loose and apparently our furnace was also leaking and was like freezing on our pipes, so they took huge chunks of ice off the furnace and logically you would think they would chuck all that nasty sludge ice outside, no, they chucked it into our washer!! So there was just crap in our washer and it didn't even looked liked they fixed everything! I was so frustrated. My comp then told me it's probably because they know we are missionaries and it was the first time I had ever been that disrespected and that trashed before in my life! I never thought that I would ever get treated I'm this way ever especially since the church pays for all the apartments, it reminded me of a talk by Elder Holland focusing on missionary work and the atonement, Elder Holland Says.... "When they struggle, when they are rejected, When they are spit upon, and cast out, and made a hiss and a byword, they are standing shoulder to shoulder with the best life this world has ever known, the only pure and perfect missionary that ever lived.".... it's never hit me so hard before than this day that I was blatantly disrespected because of my faith. Now I could be wrong, they could have not known who we were or they my have just forgot about the mess they left but it kinda hurt thinking about the first reason, but from Elder Holland, I learned that they are not disrespecting me, Gavin Milius, they are disrespecting Jesus Christ and his love. 

Anyways sorry again for missing the last couple weeks I've been doing great! I miss yall! Love yall! Keep doing amazing things! I will say one thing I've been thinking about lately is my testimony and how dedicated I actually am to my testimony, I've heard this before from some missionaries but im in a little 9 month lull right now, and it's been making me question a lot of things and doubt some things about my personal worthiness and skill. It's crazy to say buy I've never in my life felt like this, I don't doubt the church of Jesus christ to be the true living church on this earth and I can not deny the truths and miracles I've seen in my life but being on a mission has tested me to the max! But it's made me realize how important my testimony is, because without all those things that I can't deny, I've been able to overcome any doubts about myself and I've been able to endure more than I could imagine. So I invite yall to review your testimony and strengthen it as much as you can because truly, a strong testimony is that strong foundation built upon christ and with that, nothing can diminish or shake those truths, blessings, and miracles that come from this gospel!! I love this church!!! I love the people of the church!! I love everything this church has to offer and I love my savior! I hope yall have a fantastic week and I'll see yall in the next one!!! 

-Elder Milius 



I am Shredder


Bunny


The washer mess!


What a true shredder looks like (Elder Thatcher)

Tuesday, May 9, 2023

RICHMOND TEMPLE IS OPEN!!! - 8 May 2023

Well this week was filled with some cool stuff! Including but not limited to, Transfers, Kenneth is on Date, and the Temple is Dedicated! So with that being said let's get in to it!!

Tuesday was the last day of the transfer and it was loaded with lessons that didn't even go through but still it was pretty sweet. However we did have a lesson with a guy who is somewhat of a basher but also super nice and calls our lessons "dialog." He's a cool guy but kinda doesn't understand what we are talking about. It was kinda funny cause this was the first time I ever silenced somebody when they make a silly claim. His claim was the nobody will not know Jesus before we die and that the spirit world is not real and we first pulled out 1 Peter 3 and talked to him about how it mentions spirit prison but then he started dissing on it and so I flipped the page to 1 Peter 4: 6 which says why the gospel is preached to the dead and after he read that he couldn't say anything. Needless to say he said he needs to go study more but it was funny to see the spirit confound his argument. He's a super nice guy though so I wish him the best of the best but when you get bashed for such a long time and can finally stop the argument because of truth! It's a good feeling. 

Anyways transfers were Wednesday and I got my new companion! His name is Elder Mathews and we actually came out together which is sweet! Transfers were sick, got to say hi to a bunch of people and then we came back and had a lesson with a guy named Kenneth! Kenneth is a guy we've been teaching foe a little bit and he accepted the invitation to be baptized!!!! He is awesome and it's so cool to see his joy when we talk with him. He's just a happy guy and constantly says he can't wait to be baptized. So hopefully come June 10th, He can be baptized!! 

Thursday and Friday were pretty basic. It was just starting out the transfer, doing some planning and had a couple lessons with some people. We knocked a lot of doors and did some service for some members on Friday. 

Saturday was pretty fun, I had my very first baptismal interview as a District Leader. It was kinda funny cause the Assistants just called me and said they found out a kid who is being baptized Sunday is 9 which means I have to interview him. What also is funny is that means the APs are just pulling out baptisms left and right! So I got to interview a kid for baptism which was a pretty sweet experience. Then we kinda just knocked doors and had a lesson with a super patriotic dude named Donnie that went pretty well! 

Sunday was awesome!!! So after a long long time, the Richmond Virginia Temple is finally dedicated! We had President Dallin H Oaks come to the temple (literally 15 minutes away) and we had an awesome session! I think that was my 3rd dedication ive ever been to and it probably was one of my favorites because it's the first time I've actually listened and it's the only Temple that means the most to me since it's my mission temple!!! Doing the Hosanna Shout was awesome! Everything was just awesome!! It was really cool cause obviously, being at the Open house was super spiritual but even being in our chapel, which was an extension of the temple, I felt the spirit so strongly! I genuinely miss that strong spirit and I can't wait to attend the temple hopefully soon! 

Today was pretty basic Pday but we did get to go to Costco because my new comp had a birthday on Thursday and he got a Costco gift card. So we went to the food court then he bought some steaks and we just browsed at all the stuff because why not. 

But that was my week! I hope yall had an amazing week as well! I love all yall! Yall are just the best! I'm loving my mission! About 8 months down so I'm a 3rd of the way through and I wouldn't want to be anywhere else right now! The gospel is true! The Book of Mormon is true! Nothing can disprove the power that comes from reading and praying. Doing the simplest things can sometimes bring the most solid and powerful testimonies! Without my testimony there would be no way I could survive it out here but I know the feeling of not having the spirit as much and when I do have the spirit fully working in my life and my week and my days, nothing can compare to the joy, peace, comfort, direction, and love it brings to my heart! I hope you all strive everyday to be fully committed to the spirit because with the complete spirit working fully in your life, anything is possible and nothing can bring you down, not even the entire army of Satan! GOD IS GOOD! 


Sick view!


Elder Burt is going home 😭


Cool Temple pic


The moon looked cooler in person,
but it’s still a sweet picture!


Monday, May 1, 2023

EXCHANGE FILLED WEEK!! - 1 May 2023

Aight what up homies! How's everyone doing? Things are just going fantastic here in the Might VRM!!!!!!! This week we had a busy yet normal slow week. It was filled with lots to do but it was just a basic week! We did however find out transfer news and I am staying here in Mechanicsville but I am recieveing a new comp so for the past 3 transfers I've had a new comp every transfer. Lowkey kinda sad because I really enjoyed my companion and I'm honestly tired of having to readjust to a new comp every 6 weeks, maybe and hopefully I will stay with my next one for two transfers. But anyways...


Tuesday and Wednesday were pretty basic, we had lots of teaching appointments with members and friends that all went through, it was very nice not having to knock doors all day because we were teaching people! WOOO!! 

Thursday was probably my favorite day of the transfer, I got to have an exchange with the elders in our district aka the Assistants!!! The absolute units of missionaries! I got to go with the mighty Elder Weeks and man we had a great time! We talked to so many people and Elder weeks is like the best at talking with people, he is so good at breaking the ice and getting to know the person before he even brings up anything about the Book Of Mormon. I've tried a couple times since and it is really really hard to just casually walk up to a strangers door, knock on it and make a new friend before even mentioning the church. Hopefully one day I will be at his level of missionarying. But we found like 7 people which was very awesome because we needed more people to teach. Also learned that Elder weeks is an absolute David Blaine in the flesh, he is a magician for real for real!

Friday we had another exchange with the Zone Leaders and they are serving in downtown Richmond and oh my gosh I really really want to serve there one day! It's literally the coolest place ever! It's such a vibe and I mean you could literally walk down main street just talking to people for a long time and it's so fun! I love the downtown cities, it reminds me of Downtown Nashville which was probably the coolest thing I've done, just walk down main street Nashville. 

Saturday and Sunday were the same as Tuesday and Wednesday, we just knocked doors and had awesome lessons with people which was awesome!!! Hopefully soon we can put one of the people we are teaching on date cause he do be sorta progressing over here. Oh and we did have a friend come to church with us and it was the best!!! We haven't had a legitimate friend come to church with us in a while and it felt so good to see him there. Members even came up to him and talked to him! He even said after that he really does want to learn more about the church and so hopefully if he's down we are gonna get the ball rolling on this!! I'm so excited for what's to come. 

Anyways that's my week! It was pretty hype and pretty normal but it's just the best! I hope yall had an awesome week as well, keep doing awesome things in the places where yall are. Love yall!! Look forward to talking with yall in the next one!!!

-Elder Milius 

District P-day last week

A lady we do service for (her name is Candy, she’s pretty sweet 😂)

The silliest sign I’ve ever seen!

Exchange in downtown Richmond with the ZLs

My man Charles got baptized!!!! PRAISE GOD

AP exchange 🤙🏼


GRAND FINALE - 9 September 2024

Well everybody, the time has come. My final email is off and away. I honestly don't know what to say because I never imagined this day b...